Written on Tuesday, June 12th, 2012 at 12:10 pm by Christiane
 “If you want to increase your success rate, double your failure rate” (Thomas Watson). “Success is the ability to go from failure to failure without losing your enthusiasm.” (Winston Churchill)
There are many quotes and inspiring stories about optimism, perseverance and how failures ultimately turned into successes. Just think for a minute about Abraham Lincoln’s political career. I think nobody questions that he was a very successful politician up to becoming president. Still, there were several setbacks in his career where he ran for office in congress or senate and didn’t make it – but he never gave up.
Inventor Thomas Edison spent countless of hours on the development of the carbonized cotton-thread filament for the incandescent light bulb. When a reporter asked him about the failures, Edison supposedly answered “I didn’t fail; I found out 2,000 ways how not to make a light bulb.” (http://en.wikiquote.org/wiki/National_Treasure_(film) )
Most of us would have given up earlier or not even started the endeavor.
Why some people are willing to embark on a long journey toward a difficult goal and others don’t even try is a question many psychologists would like to answer. There is evidence that genes play a role and some people are simply born more optimistic than others. However, there is also evidence that optimism can be learned, which is good news as this means we all can take steps to increase optimism.
Eight steps to increase optimism:
- Don’t wait for life to happen. Set a goal and also define subgoals to mark progress toward your ultimate goal. Then make an action plan to implement your goal.
- Celebrate milestones, for example when you reach a subgoal.
- If there are setbacks, don’t give up immediately on your goal. Focus on ways to overcome setbacks and remind yourself how far you have come already..
- At the end of each day, recall positive events of the day. Find three things that you are grateful for that they happened. This can be mundane things like finding a parking spot quickly.
- Surround yourself with positive and optimistic people. Over time you will learn from others to see the glass as half full.
- Make sure that you do every day something just for fun. As more positive experiences you have, as more will you enjoy your life.
- Exercise regularly. Studies show that physical activity acts like a natural antidepressant.
- And last, but not least: Team up with a life coach to have someone who gently pushes you forward toward your goal, keeps you on track, is your cheerleader and sounding board, and helps you to overcome obstacles on your way to success. You will be amazed what a life coach can do for you!
 Written by Christiane Turnheim. Christiane is a professional life and career coach in Massachusetts and teaches psychology at a community college in the Boston area. She is author of the e-workbook “Job Satisfaction – Learn To Love Your Job”  . Email her at cten.u4hcaocnull@enaitsirh
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Written on Thursday, January 26th, 2012 at 9:10 pm by Christiane
Work- life balance and opportunities to learn and grow are the most important factors for job satisfaction according to a survey developed by Office Team, a staffing service. Read more
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Written on Tuesday, April 19th, 2011 at 4:13 pm by Christiane
It pays off to have job training in math, science or computer software engineering. According to a new job ranking by CareerCast, a job listing and research site, these professions are the best jobs in 2011 based on income, job prospect/ job security, stress level and work environment:
Top ranked is software engineer, followed in order by mathematician, actuary, statistician, computer systems analyst, meteorologist, biologist, historian, audiologist, and dental hygienist.
The worst jobs are: roustabout as the worst, followed by iron worker, lumberjack, roofer, taxi driver, EMT, welder, painter, meter reader, and construction worker.
Of course, the ranking criteria used by CareerCast are rather superficial as job satisfaction does not depend solely on salary, job stress or work environment. For most people, other factors are important too: Opportunities to learn, relationships with co-workers and management, career advancement options, feeling appreciated……
Also not considered in the ranking: individual aptitudes and personalities. For some people, software engineer may indeed be the best job ever; for others however, it may be the worst.
Find out what would be the best job for you based on your interests and needs – read my eBook
Written by Christiane. She is psychologist and Life & Career coach. Contact her at ten.u4hcaocnull@enaitsirhc
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Written on Thursday, April 14th, 2011 at 12:06 pm by Christiane
Are you feeling stuck in your old job? Are you unhappy with your current line of work? Then you are not alone. Many people dream about a new and more satisfying job but only a few dare to take the necessary steps.
 So, what is holding you back? Fear of the unknown? Afraid that you would have to take a pay cut? Doubt about your skills and abilities? Feeling “too old” for starting over?
It’s true, making a career change can be a scary prospect – but think of the payoff: Loving again what you do, feeling challenged, seeing purpose, helping others, having fun… In all, working in your dream job means so much more than just getting a paycheck.
It’s not an empty phrase when I say that it is never too late to make a career change. In my college classes, I have every semester a few students, who are well into middle age. They are eager to learn, inspired by their goals, and therefore are often the highest achievers in class.
If you have a strong desire for a career change, don’t allow your fears to hold you back.
Many people find it difficult to find the energy, time and information needed for a successful career change. They worry that they may make a wrong choice and waste money on expensive retraining programs.
My Career Coaching Program can help you to find the right career for you.
I will help you:
- Identify your interests and abilities
- Explore career alternatives
- Find your dream job
- Compare and evaluate education and job training options
- Make an action plan witha  step by step guide to achieve your career goal
- Plan your finances
- Overcome roadblocks and obstacles that you may encounter on your way to a more satisfying new career.
 Email me to find out more:  ten.u4hcaocnull@enaitsirhc
 Christiane Turnheim is psychologist and Life & Career Coach. She also teaches Psychology at a Community College in Massachusetts. Visit her website at www.coach4u.net
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Written on Monday, August 23rd, 2010 at 4:05 pm by Christiane
I recently read an article on ScienceDaily.com about the impact of Employee job satisfaction on the financial performance of a company:
ScienceDaily (2010-08-14) — When a JetBlue flight attendant creatively deplaned earlier this month, many questions arose as to why someone would be willing to give up a steady paycheck during these tough economic times. While this “working man’s hero” will most likely be questioning his motives as he hands over his lawyer’s fees, a new report in Perspectives on Psychological Science, suggests that his action may be a sign of trouble for JetBlue and other large companies. … read full articleÂ
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Written on Tuesday, July 27th, 2010 at 12:42 pm by Christiane
US employees get on average per year 9 days paid leave and 6 paid holidays – despite the fact that the US is the only advanced economy in the world that has no paid leave law. European workers, for comparison, get in minimum 20 days of paid leave in addition to paid holidays. In my native country Austria, workers can get even up to six weeks of paid leave plus 13 holidays.
In the US, full time employees and those with a higher income are more likely to get paid vacation days than part-time and low wage workers. And despite having on average only nine days of paid vacation, roughly a third of employees with vacation benefits don’t take all of the vacation days they receive. Many believe that management perceives it negatively if they take vacation. A typical fear in these days of high unemployment is that workers are afraid that they may get replaced if they don’t give 110 % and therefore they rather forego on the well deserved time-off. About 25% of those, who do take vacation, stay connected with their company by checking work email or taking phone calls from the office while on vacation. About one third of employees admitted in an Expedia.com survey that they feel guilty about taking time off.
They shouldn’t – because it’s not only in their own interest if they use their vacation days to relax and refresh. There’s also a benefit to the employer: Workers who don’t get a break will become exhausted and burned-out over time. They are no longer able to perform to their full potential. They are also at risk for depression and other health issues, which may end up to cost the company more than the vacation days. On the other hand, workers who come back after a break with new energy and new perspectives and ideas will be more productive.
Therefore, talk to your employer about your vacation needs and how the company can even benefit from it. Plan ahead and talk to your co-workers about your vacation. Ask a co-worker to cover for you if necessary and offer the same favor in return. Final advice: don’t take work with you and avoid checking emails. It’s quite unlikely that your office will fall apart just because you take a few days off.
And with these lines, I say “Good bye” for two weeks. I will be on vacation in Austria!
Christiane is a Life and Career Coach. She also teaches psychology at a community college in Massachusetts. You can reach her via her website http://www.coach4u.net or email her.
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Written on Tuesday, July 20th, 2010 at 8:14 pm by Christiane
The ten sections of the Job Satisfaction Wheel represent important factors, which for many people determine job satisfaction.
 Print the wheel. Seeing the center of the wheel as 0 and the outer edges as 10, assign each section a value between 0 and 10, depending on YOUR satisfaction with the particular factor at YOUR current workplace. If you connect these values with a straight or curved line to create a new outer edge, do you still have a nice, round wheel?
 If you see areas that need improvement, take action. Don’t accept a dissatisfying job situation! Call me at 781 777 2791 or email me to schedule a Free Coaching introduction session to find out how Career Coaching can help you.
 Read also my e-workbook “Learn to Love your Job” with information and activities designed to help you to find satisfaction in your job. Learn more about the book.
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Written on Tuesday, July 13th, 2010 at 7:52 pm by Christiane
Currently, job satisfaction is down to a record low in the US. About 55 % of Americans are unhappy with their work, according to a recent survey by the Conference Board research group.
Are you unhappy, too?
This eWorkbook will help you to identify strategies to get a satisfying job. “Learn to Love your Job” is not just a book to read. You will get 2 in 1, an eBook and an eCourse. “Learn to Love your Job” combines information with questions and self-tests about your own experiences and attitudes. You will also learn more about strategies to improve your job situation.
After reading the eWorkbook and doing the exercises, you will have a better understanding of your needs and what you are expecting from a job – besides a good salary, of course. You will know what makes you happy at your workplace and what triggers unhappiness.
After reading the eWorkbook “Learn to Love your Job” you will be able to answer among others the following questions:
• What are the 5 most important job satisfaction factors?
• How important are good relationships with co-workers for me? Do I have a strong need for building relationships with co-workers and/or customers?
• Do I need challenges in my work more than pay and benefits?
• How important is work for me? Am I just working for the money?
• What bothers me most at my workplace? My supervisor, not receiving recognition, or the working environment….?
• How can I improve my relationship with my boss?
• What can I do to make my work more interesting?
As the last two questions demonstrate, you will also learn how to change and improve the problem areas at your workplace so that you can finally say:
 I Love my job!
Chapter Overview:
1) What exactly is job satisfaction?
2) Why does job satisfaction matter? – Your health and job satisfaction. Test yourself: How satisfied are you at your current workplace?
3) Why are you working? Learn to distinguish between motivation and satisfaction!
4) What gets you out of the bed and to work every morning? Is it just the money? Or are you someone who needs challenges? How important are achievements and making a difference? Do you need interactions with other people? Read what famous psychologists say about motivation. (Herzberg, Maslow, Discrepancy theory, McClelland)
5) Role of key elements: Leadership and leadership styles, co-workers, salary and benefits. Take a test to determine your job happiness triggers! Discover also what you dislike most about your job.
6) How to get your dream job? Strategies to improve your current workplace.
7) Make an Action Plan, and start moving toward your Dream Job.
Don’t spend one more day in a dissatisfying job!     Â
Would you like to know more about the eWorkbook “Learn to Love your Job”? Call me at 781 777 2791 or email me.
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Written on Friday, July 9th, 2010 at 9:49 am by Christiane
How to be happy at work? The answer: Be happy in your life.
According to a new study published by the British Psychological Society people, who feel generally happy in their lifes are more likely to like their jobs. On the flip side, those who are unhappy in life are unlikely to be experiencing  job satisfaction. Also, looking for a new job is probably not the solution as those dissatisfied with their lifes will probably find something wrong with the new job, too.
So, what can you do? Psychologists still discuss and research the genetic component of happiness. However, it’s never genes alone.
People, who are unhappy in life and in their jobs have most likely learned certain thinking styles, behaviors, and expectations that hinder them to achieve happiness. Possible causes could be for example black and white thinking and perfectionism (if it’s not perfect, it’s awful), unrealistic expectations, focusing on negative aspects and neglecting positive events and so forth.
The good news: As these thinking styles, behaviors and expectations are learned, they can be unlearned.
Written by Life and Career Coach Christiane Turnheim. Christiane teaches psychology at a community college in the Boston area. To contact her, visit her website www.coach4u.net
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Written on Wednesday, June 16th, 2010 at 4:20 pm by Christiane
What are the key factors that keep people happy in the workplace?
One would assume that this should be an easy question to research, however studies about this topic yield different results. For one, researchers use different questions in their surveys. Another reason is that not all studies analyze the results by age groups. Generally, younger workers tend to be less satisfied with their jobs than older workers and they do have different expectations.
The Society for Human Resource Management (SHRM) annually surveys employees and HR professionals about job satisfaction.
The Top 5 Job Satisfaction Factors for Employees are according to the 2009 Survey report :
- Job Security
- Benefits
- Compensation/Pay
- Opportunities to use skills and abilities
- Feeling safe in the work environment
The HR professionals in this study agreed with ‘ Job Security’ as top priority, and they also included ‘Benefit’s and ‘Opportunities to use skills and abilities’ among the top 5 factors. However, on rank 2 they put ‘Relationship with immediate supervisor’ and on rank 4’Ccommunication between employees and senior managemen’t.
Salary.com Inc.  found that employers overestimate the job satisfaction levels of their employees. According to the 2008/2009 Employee Satisfaction and Retention Survey by salary.com, about 65 % of employees said that they are somewhat satisfied with their jobs. Employers believed this number to be 77%. Â
Key Factors for staying in the job are according to the study:Â
Good relationships with co-workers, job security, desirable commute and desirable hours.  Good relationships with managers and adequate benefitswhere this time not among the top reasons why people remain in their jobs.
Top reasons to leave a job are according to the survey inadequate pay, insufficient recognition and not  enough development opportunities.
In my college classes, I usually give my students also a questionnaire about important job satisfaction factors. Most of my students are in their 20s, which means they belong to the group of the most unhappy workers in the US – at least according to the results of most  major surveys.
The top 5 key factors for job satisfaction according to my students are:
- Pay
- Benefits
- Relationship with supervisor
- Relationship with co-workers                             and, normally not included in surveys
- Humor/ having fun at the workplace
Perhaps this is the difference between todays young people and the rest of us workers. Young people want to enjoy the time they spend at work, while previous generations are more achievement oriented or only work to make a living.
Why do you work? What are the most important key factors for you? What motivates you? What can you do to improve a dissatisfying job?
Find the answers in my new eWorkbook: Job Satisfaction – Learn to Love Your Job!
This is not just another book to read. Activities like thought questions, questionnaires and exercises will guide you to a better understanding of your wishes and needs at the workplace. You will learn which aspects of your job are gratifying and which aspects need improvement. I also offer you advice and tips what you can do to improve your job situation.
Get the eWorkbook  “Job Satisfaction – Learn to Love Your Job” NOW!
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